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Hi, I'm Alex 👋 I'm a third culture kid, and “where are you from?” has never had a short answer for me. I built Oh My Person so people like us can find each other - for a date, a friend, or just someone who gets it.

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Oh My Person is dating for third culture kids

Third culture kids, cross-cultural kids, and anyone whose “where are you from?” needs a footnote.

People who grew up between countries, cultures, and languages - filter by where you grew up, where your parents are from, and what you speak, then match on values, not a photo.

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